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The manners in Germany are more formal and restrained. So you usually shake hands when greeting somebody. This applies in particular towards people who you refer to in the formal "Sie" as strangers, supervisors or officials. Hugs and kisses for greeting are common within the family and among friends. In general it is not allowed to touch strangers without their agreement. Touching of a sexual nature are even punishable. Too loud talking, wild gesturing or even cries during a call is uncommon in Germany and is rather perceived as disrespectful. If you want something from someone you should ask politely accompanied by the word "Bitte". If you get something, thank them with the word "Danke" for it. The Germans also place much emphasis on manners at the table. While eating in public at every meal it is normal to use the respective silverware and rarely the hands. A respectful interaction with each other is equally important for both men and women, since they are considered equal in Germany. Also a polite dealing with elderly, disabled and pregnant women, and people with young children is important. You should offer these persons help when they need it and for example offer them a seating in public transport.

Phrases

I wish you a good morning/good evening.

Ich wünsche Ihnen/ Dir eine guten Tag/ guten Morgen/ guten Abend.

How are you?

Wie geht es Ihnen/ Dir?

What's your name?

Wie heißen Sie/ heißt Du?

What's your name/ first name/ surname/ birth name?

Wie ist Ihr Name/ Vorname/ Nachname/ Familienname?

Thank you.

Vielen Dank/ Dankeschön/ Danke.

You're welcome.

Bitte. Gern geschehen.